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When may you need Marriage Counseling

Marriage is the beautiful union between two people who vow to love, honor and respect each other as long as they both shall live. Unfortunately, marriage isn’t always easy. It is very common for married couples to experience bumps in the road and it can

Navigating Intimacy After Betrayal: Can You Rebuild Trust and Desire?

By Rebecca Ginder, Licensed Sex Therapist Few things impact a relationship more deeply than betrayal. Whether it’s infidelity, emotional cheating, broken promises, or breaches of trust, the aftermath can feel like everything you once knew has been turned upside down. For many couples, one of

Understanding Asexuality and Low Desire: Creating a Relationship That Works for You

Understanding Asexuality and Low Desire: Creating a Relationship That Works for You By Rebecca Ginder, Licensed Sex Therapist Not everyone experiences sexual desire in the same way—and that’s okay. Whether you identify as asexual, experience low desire, or are partnered with someone who does, it’s essential to

Sex After Kids: How to Reconnect with Your Partner When Life Feels Overwhelming

By Rebecca Ginder, Licensed Sex Therapist Becoming a parent is one of the most transformative experiences in life—and also one of the most exhausting. Between late-night feedings, endless to-do lists, and the emotional rollercoaster of raising kids, it’s easy for intimacy with your partner to

5 Communication Techniques to Improve Intimacy in Relationships

Hi, I’m Rebecca Ginder, a licensed sex therapist. When couples come to me for help, one of the most common issues they mention is struggling to communicate. Without healthy communication, misunderstandings build up, needs go unmet, and emotional distance can grow. But the good news

The Invisible Load: How Mental Load Impacts Intimacy in Relationships

By Rebecca Ginder, Licensed Sex Therapist If you’ve ever felt like your brain is constantly juggling a thousand tabs—coordinating schedules, remembering appointments, tracking groceries, managing emotions—you’re not imagining it. That feeling has a name: mental load, and it plays a bigger role in relationships and intimacy