Why Do I Have Trouble Reaching Orgasm? Understanding the Emotional Side of Orgasm
By Rebecca Ginder, LCSW. If you’ve ever wondered, “Why can’t I orgasm?” or found that reaching orgasm seems much easier for your partner than it does for you, you’re certainly not the only person asking that question. Difficulty reaching orgasm is a common sexual concern, yet many people hesitate to talk about it. You might feel embarrassed, […]
Pain During Sex: Why You Shouldn’t Ignore It and When to Seek Help
By Rebecca Ginder, LCSW. Sex is supposed to be an experience that feels safe, comfortable, and pleasurable. But for many people, that’s not always the case. Pain during sex is more common than many people realize, yet it often goes unspoken. Some people assume they simply need to tolerate it. Others feel embarrassed bringing it […]
How Trauma Can Affect Intimacy—Even Years Later
By Rebecca Ginder, LCSW., Certified Sex Therapist When people hear the word “trauma,” they often think of a single, major event. But trauma can take many forms, and its effects can linger long after the event itself has passed. In my work as a sex therapist, I often meet clients who are struggling with intimacy, […]